Wednesday, July 15, 2015

Top Supplements for health and happiness

For a while I've been trying to compile a list of my top supplements.  After much deliberation, this is what I've narrowed it down to.  This is, of course, only what I've found works for our family, and may not be the best choices for your specific health issues.  I'll try to list links so that you can get more information, should you desire.


1) Things that aid digestion.  If you aren't digesting your food well, then you aren't absorbing your food well either, which means you aren't getting your nutrients to nourish and heal your body, and then a myriad of problems can arise.  Poor immunity, poor coping skills, allergies, leaky gut, cancer...you name it.  There are several ways to approach this.

   a) digestive bitters- these help stimulate digestive juices to help your body digest better on its own.  Some brand names are Urban Moonshine and Mountain Meadow Herbs Liver Glow (II for kids/nursing/pregnancy).  Our James has used the LiverGlowII for a couple years now (off and on, as we take breaks), and his liver is doing better than it ever has and his eczema is gone.  Ingredients like milk thistle and dandelion are in them, and they strengthen and cleanse the liver at the same time, while providing minerals.
   b) digestive enzymes- there are complete books written on enzymes, but basically they help your body break down food when it is unable to on its own (most commonly due to stress which lowers our body's natural ways of working).  There are many good brands, here's the one our Naturopath recommends( Pure)   Look for both plant, animal and Betaine HCl for optimal digestion.  
   c) diluted HCl- this is just diluted stomach acid itself, and by using it, your body will produce more of its own as well as help your food digest better also.  Low stomach acid is usually caused by stress also. Have you ever not felt like eating when you're under heavy stress?  That's why.  Constant low grade stress does the same thing on a long-term basis.  If you suffer from heartburn, this would be what you want.  Typically heartburn is your body pumping out continually (instead of just at mealtime) HCl because the levels are too low, not too high (as most would believe).  The only reasons not to take HCl is if you are on corticosteroids (eg. Prednisone) and/or anti-inflammatory NSAIDS (eg. Motrin) as both of these type of drugs irritate the stomach lining already, and the added acid can cause ulcers.  We give this to a couple kids and they are less ditzy and can think/learn more clearly when they take it.  Our Naturopath says that kids can heal themselves by just adding this to their diet.  I haven't seen healing yet, but I have seen happier kids who are able to focus (and less digestive issues) and that is nice for everyone around!


2) Things that replace the bad bacteria with good.  Most of us have either been on antibiotics at least once in our life (or like me- many, many times ever since my bouts with tonsillitis as a small child, or my husband who was born via C-section and then had strep many times as a child).   Anyhow, our gut flora is pretty much nil.  Other ways we destroy our gut flora. 

   a)  Probiotics-  things like kefir, kombucha, kimchi, raw sauerkraut and probiotic pills will all help.  This is a lifestyle change, not just a one-time-eat-some-yogurt-because-you-were-on-antibiotics type deal.  Add these things in when you can, and slowly incorporate them more and more.  Kefir can now be bought at Walmart and WinCo.  Kimchi is at WinCo, raw sauerkraut or pickles (Bubbie's) are at most grocery stores too (in the refrigerated section).  If your store doesn't carry these items, email/call them and ask them too.  Or learn to make your own.  Wellness Mama (my favorite health blog) has instructions for most.
   b)  Prebiotics- these I have not taken myself, but have family members benefit from them.  These help the probiotics work better, and help replace bad bacteria with good.  These are not as common as probiotics, but just as important.  Mountain Meadow Herbs  also carries them.


3) Greens, greens, greens.  I don't know anyone who lives in this day and age who eats enough greens.   So, supplementing is crucial.  These help nourish our bodies, provide fiber to move things through our system, detoxify chemicals/medications, provide oxygen to our cells all of which help prevent disease.  They are the most nutrient dense vegetables, in yet they taste the worst so we rarely eat them, right?  Here's a few more reasons to eat greens.  My favorite is of course Green Vibrance.

   a) green vegetables-Whether you buy them and make juice or smoothies, steam or roast, or simply buy a green powder or capsule to take, try to do what it takes to get more green vegetables into your diet.
   b) green seaweeds- this consists of spirulina, kelp, dulse, chlorella, etc.  These are full of minerals and also full of green which can really benefit the body.  Most of them also benefit the thyroid, which is low in many people these days.  Even if the Dr. says yours is fine, that often means that it is in "normal range", not in optimal range.  Check the numbers and see if yours is in the top 25% of the range, rather than just within normal.  According to my Naturopathic Dr., people don't feel good unless their numbers are in that top range.  Chlorophyll is not a seaweed, but another great green for deodorizing the body and flushing out toxins and oxygenating your cells.


4) Essential fatty acids (EFAs)- this is all those good oils we hear about which do all kinds of things.

These EFAs are necessary for the following processes:
  • Formation of healthy cell membranes 
  • Proper development and functioning of the brain and nervous system
  • Proper thyroid and adrenal activity
  • Hormone production
  • Regulation of blood pressure, liver function, immune and inflammatory responses
  • Regulation of blood clotting: Omega-6 FAs encourage blood clot formation, whereas Omega-3 oil reduces clotting. The ideal is to achieve a balance between omega-6 and omega-3 FAs
  • Crucial for the transport and breakdown of cholesterol
  • Support healthy skin and hair
Fish oils, flax oils, nut oils, coconut oil, olive oil, avocado oil, real butter, chia/hemp seeds, cod liver oil, fat from grassfed beef/pasture raised chicken, etc.  Avoid anything hydrogenated, or chemically altered or heat treated (for shelf life), and you should be fine.  After decades of low-fat mantra, it's time to replenish all those good oils and fats again.
Interestingly, it seems that many gluten sensitivities can be traced to a lack of good essential fatty acids.  Sometimes the person isn't getting enough EFAs, but often it is because their body isn't breaking down the ones they are getting (refer to my #1 above).  Adding digestive enzymes can help the body heal the fatty acid deficiency and the gluten sensitivity in the process.  Yay!  


5) Calcium/magnesium/phosphorus/boron/vitamin D- although magnesium is the one often lacking the most, all of these minerals and vitamins work together for healthy teeth and bones.  You need all of them together for your body to be able to utilize them effectively.  Soda sucks the first three out of bones and teeth as it is so acidic that your body needs 32x more of them to replace what you drank.  Yikes!  Growing babies is hard on teeth and bones too.  Celeste has been teething lately, and it's made my own teeth ache (she's nursing way more), and they ache even if I only eat a bit of sugar.  I've been upping my intake of these vitamins, because I really don't need (or want) teeth problems if I can avoid it.  The brand that works best for me is Nature's Sunshine Skeletal Strength and it has calming and digestive helps in it too.  Here's a good article on how these all work together and the importance of them.  The book The Magnesium Miracle is good too.


6) Bone broth and gelatin- bone broth has gelatin in it, both which help heal and nourish the body.  Because our society eats mostly muscle meats, we are severely lacking in collagen and minerals and amino acids for healing most ailments.   Bone broth can heal a leaky gut, overcome food intolerances and allergies, improve joint health, reduce cellulite and boost the immune system.  Slow simmering bone-in meat is one way to do this easily, and then making gravy from the drippings or using broth for soup.  Here's a good article about the benefits of bone broth.  You can learn to make your own, or now you can even buy it premade.

Although often health solutions can start at home; nutritionists and Naturopathic Dr.'s are needed also to pinpoint problems if they are more deep rooted and not easily solvable.  This website below is my favorite for at-home things you can do to improve your health.  She has easy tests to do to help determine different things, how to make healing foods and such.  Below is a screen shot of her healing food list which we strive to do when we can.  Sometimes food isn't enough to heal, and supplements are needed to boost health (in specific areas) before the food can heal (we've found this true in our house).  

Here's Wellness Mama's list of supplements she recommends also.  I wrote my own list without looking at hers, but they ended up pretty similar.

Any that I forgot??

Thursday, July 9, 2015

Mommy Nerves

The other day it occurred to me, that I just ain't what I used to be.  I mean, I already knew this, considering I am turning 40 this year.  And though I'm okay with getting older (and hopefully wiser) and more gray hair (it's somehow multiplying at an exponential rate), what I don't like is how my nerves just don't handle things like they used to.

My 5 babies have not been easy on my body, and I supplement accordingly to try to accommodate the lacks, one of which is B vitamins in large doses.  This lack has created in me occasional anxiety which I have never experienced before.  There has been two times when my anxiety actually got the better of me and I felt very out of control (although this was nothing compared to what some people deal with due to anxiety).  This was when venturing into new territory where I had never tread before.  One was playing the piano for a wedding (I will not say yes to that again!) and the other was when I had to call our wonderful midwife when we were first considering a home birth.  I had anxiety before calling her and then it was even worse on the day of our first appointment.  And then she called and cancelled because of a birth and had to reschedule.  Akk.  Even more waiting.  Thankfully both situations ended positively, but I don't care to relive the anxious moments.

This past year I have been put in 3 new situations which also caused me stress in a way that I never thought I would feel stress.  One was butchering chickens last summer.  I felt like I could only observe and learn, and then next time maybe I'll venture forth and actually help out.  Between watching 9 kids and making meals for company, my brain was maxed out already.  Learning something new was not in my capabilities that day.  But, now that I've seen the process, I feel like if we ever do meat chickens again, I will be an asset to the production line.

The next was flying with 5 kids and tackling Disneyland.  Talk about mom anxiety there.  Losing a kid.  Forgetting a kid.  Kids acting up on the plane.  Needing a bathroom and not being able to find one.  Hunger/new food struggles eating in different places (thankfully that wasn't high on the list as our kids are pretty good eaters). 
Elise and Isaac pouting at California Adventure because their tamales were too spicy.  Thankfully they ate the beans and rice and the rest of us got to enjoy their delicious tamales!
Thankfully that trip all went well, although meandering through a crowd of probably 20,000 in the dark with a group of 13 was rather stressful at the end of the busy day.  It tipped me over into "freak out" mindset and the "I have to get out of here right now or I'll lose it" flight or fight kicked in.  As soon as we were out of the crowds of people and back under the streetlights I was fine, but it as tense for a bit there!

Then just this past weekend my cousin Janine and her family invited us to go fishing in the ocean in their new boat.  I did enjoy the whole adventure, but felt again that I'd better just observe everything before getting too involved.  It would have been great fun to catch a fish, but with our 3 little ones who were not feeling well (they fell asleep thankfully), I felt it was all I could handle to just stay calm and stay seated and at the end of the day get home in one piece!

The older boys did great, but I pictured many "worst case scenarios" in my mind, most of which were possible but highly unlikely.  I tried to think back to when I just had myself to worry about, and I generally knew what my limitations were (in the same type of scenarios).  With kids you never know what they're thinking and what they'll try, which is a big part of what makes being a parent so stressful.  Some kids are risk takers, some play it safe.  Some have poor judgement (often due to inexperience), some have excellent judgement but are fearful and/or klutzy.  It's so hard to know when to let them spread their wings and when the parental authority must take over and we must be wise for them.

I try really hard not to turn into my mother (whom I love dearly, but who worries far too much), in yet I know it's probably quite unavoidable also.  With my nerves getting worse over time, and our boys getting more daring, I'm sure the worst is yet to come!  I'm not really sure how to avoid it and how to embrace it gracefully.

Another aspect is letting my own fears rub off on my kids.  I have unreasonable fears of horses, beetles, and ocean beaches (random sneaker waves + 5 kids = not much fun, ever), and a few more that I can't think of right now.  When we were in Santa Monica, CA this spring, I did want to try to go to the beach there.  I took 3 of the kids down (Greg despises beaches even more than me and offered to stay at the car with the other 2 kids since they didn't want to come) to the beach and after about 5 minutes, my nerves had had enough.  Done.  Time to go.  I keep trying to get braver, but the image of little Luke when he was 3 getting washed away from me, and his little body rolling in the waves just resurfaces and I can't get past it.  I wonder then if I really do need to get past it or if it's there for my future benefit.  Like horses. I have no desire to ever get past my fear of horses.   I can't see how I'll ever need to ride a horse again in my life.  Or hitch one to a cart or buggy (unless I convert to Amish, haha).  And Greg is thankful for how much money we'll save by never having to own a horse (he actually prayed for a wife who wouldn't love horses, because so many women get so obsessed with them).  Well, he got one!
The 3 brave ones
I do remember meeting a lady whose brother had drowned when she was a child. Because of that experience, she was so fearful of water that she never had her own children learn to swim and they felt she had done them a great disservice.  I do think it would have been wiser for her to ensure her kids learned to swim, rather than avoid the water due to fear.  So, I do wonder again, where does balance lie?

Well, off to bed so that my nerves are as healthy as they can be for this stage of life tomorrow.  A certain baby in our house has about 4 teeth coming through today, and possibly 4 more on the way, so her nerves can use all the help they can get too.  Nutritional yeast, B vitamins, calcium/magnesium for teeth health and calming...coming up! This seems elementary but our Naturopath says that babies only have as much vitamins as their moms give them (if nursing), so if they aren't coping well, it's because they don't have enough vitamins to cope with.  Makes sense but amid the crying and whining, I often forget to ensure it.

What do you do to keep your sanity, patience, nerves calm and keep an overall sense of well-being?